In my past relationships I have found that I climaxed more readily than I am now in my present relationship. I have come to find that I have MUCH deeper feelings for the person I am with now than I had in my previous relationships. But ironically, I can%26#039;t come as easily. I think it%26#039;s because I am so much more focused on pleasing him now %26amp; in the past I was just focused on myself. How can I fix this?
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yea so basically in the past I just used them to get off
%26amp; now im in love %26amp; all i think about is pleasing him
%26amp; now im in love %26amp; all i think about is pleasing him
Allow yourself to let go to pleasure with him. Psychologically, you might feel different because you want him to respect you as being a lovely person but not a sex object or %26#039;nymphomanic%26#039;. Also, you might be doing your utmost to please or impress him so that you can keep him...without realising it, you might start building up some resentment to him just taking, rather than giving, wheras you haven%26#039;t actually let him know what you really want or indeed inspired him to try things he likes that might work for you too. All partners and combinations of partners work differently and it might be that you need to experiment with different activities and positions instead of keeping to what you have usually done with other partners.
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personal experience!
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